
1.0 Introduction
As much as I wish to achieve grand dreams and change the world, I lead a mediocre life, waking up, working for someone, and shutting down. Note the part “working for someone,” which means working for someone to achieve their grand dreams and changing the world in their way.
Now, working for someone is quite practical when you are expanding your skill set, exploring your field of interest, and harnessing your potential to create something unique. While doing this, developing a small list of core, rhythmic actions, called ANCHORS, which, when completed, mark your day as successful, will help you to PROGRESS DAILY toward “your” important goals.
Author Austin Kleon says, “I always keep a pocket notebook on me, and then I diary in the morning, and then create a blog post, and those blog posts will become talks, which then become books. As long as I write in my diary, publish a blog post, take a walk, and read a book, that’s been a good day”.
Any goal worth achieving demands sustained and dedicated efforts, but also with a healthy and sound mind. ANCHORS give you a daily sense of accomplishment. Because they are intentional, they guarantee to move closer towards the goals in a sustainable and compounding fashion. A happy, content, and successful life is simply a collection of happy, content, and successful days.
2.0 Why anchors alongside habits or routines?
Because unlike routines or habits, Anchors are not time or location-sensitive in your day. We all know how interdependent our lives are with people whom we work with, love, or care about.
Almost always, we don’t have the luxury to do what we want to, when we want to, and where we want to. We get stuck in traffic during our time to hit the evening gym; we stay late in the office to complete work during our time to unwind and sleep; we step up to complete all chores because your partner fell sick.
Life around us is very uncertain.
I imagine my life like a turbulent sea with high and low tides. My ANCHORS are what provide me stability and the confidence that everything’s going to fall in place. They help my mind to be in a calm place when the external winds or currents want to wander it off.
Even on my bad days [which are many], when I miss on workout, a healthy meal, or ticking off the tasks from my checklist, going through my anchors helps me have a peaceful sleep.
3.0 Putting anchors to your day
- List all your “LIFE GOALS” on paper. Include atleast 5 goals.
- Roughly prioritize them from 1 to 5 on the basis of how a) badly you want it to happen, b) how realistic it is for you to achieve them given the resources, and c) how satisfied you will be while living a normal day when that life goal is achieved. Be very vivid in your imagination.
- Strike out the bottom 2 as they are most likely to conflict with your top 3 goals. Keep if they do not conflict with your top 3 goals.
- Now imagine that you are living that normal day where your goal has been realized. Vividly visualize what you would be doing that day, as a normal day. List 2-3 actions from that day to the right of the “LIFE GOALS”.
- Pick the tiniest action from each goal. You get your ANCHORS.
It will take some visualization. But remember, it is for your “LIFE GOALS”. It is for those goals you live and breathe. Visualizing a normal day where your goals have been realized is crucial to finding your anchors. Dreams don’t fulfil. You undergo a process. The process of making small, incremental progress daily. Until one day you normally complete your day and find you are living the dream. Dreams eventually become your reality.
So it is really about making your “reality” day as close as possible to your “dream” day.